Wash rice with water thoroughly. Heat 2-3 tbsps of ghee in a kadai or a heavy bottomed casserole, and then add bay leaf, cinnamon, cardamoms, cloves, mace and stir this for a min.
Add a handful of cashew and kishmish (raisins) and stir this on medium heat.
As soon as the kishmish starts to swell up, add the rice and stir this on medium heat for 4-5 minutes. While stirring, also add freshly grated ginger and ½ to 1 tsp of nutmeg powder (depends on the strength of the nutmeg).
Add exactly double the quantity of water (if it is basmati and half cup less of water if it is gobindobhog) and give it a boil.
Add salt to taste and 1 and ½ tsp of sugar. The salt has to be of higher quantity when you taste.
Give it a boil and then cover and let this cook on low heat, while covered. Check from time to time but do not stir.
When the rice has cooked, drizzle a little more ghee if needed.
If you feel that the rice needs a little more water, then just sprinkle hot water (about 1 tbsp) and then cover and let it cook.
Serve kaju kishmish pulao with chicken dak bungalow, kosha mangsho or any other curry of your choice.